2021.10.23 21:17 browncoattrumpeter It feels as though my ex is following me like a shadow
Last year me (20) and my ex (22) dated for around 5 months. During the relationship I realised I didn't feel the same way as her and broke up (this is now 8 months ago.) At the time it seemed like a fairly straightforward split given the circumstances (thanks to wierd covid circumstances we had ended up in the same flat at uni.)
Due to an intertwined friendship group we ended up living in the same flat again this year. Seemed ok at first but it seems to be coming apparent that she seems incapable of doing anything social without my being there. In the past 6 weeks I can think of a single instance when she has done anything outside of the flat or uni where I wasn't there.
In the summer just gone I was checking in on how she was doing over text and she told me that while she was doing what she could to move on she still had feelings for me.
My concerns are that:
A) She is seemingly incapable of going to anywhere without me also being there. I've suggested that she goes places, meets new people but she always starts on that she doesn't want to do things alone.
B) She seems to have started assuming she is invited whenever I do something with friends, this doesn't give me enough breathing space (I have no problem doing some things with her in the group, the friendship groups are intertwined after all, I just need more space than I currently have)
C) I know that she is a person of extremes and if I tell her that I want to spend less time with her she might cut herself off and isolate herself completely rather than seeking to find a healthy balance
D) I'm concerned that if she is still carrying feelings for me, spending that volume of time with me may be stopping her from moving on, emotionally and romantically.
Am I overthinking this all? Should I just continue as normal or is there some solution I'm missing. Thank you for any help or advice you can give
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2021.10.23 21:17 DumbledoresGay69 [Dune 2021 Movie] Spoilers in this question
Spoiler alert, you have been warned.
When Shadout Mapes presented Lady Jessica with a kris knife, she unsheathed it, then sheathed it again without getting the blade bloody. This is a major no-no in Fremen culture. Later you can see this when the Fremen attack Paul and Jessica in the desert, and Stillgar makes them stop, they bloody all their blades before putting them back.
Why did Shadout Mapes break the rules of her culture?
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2021.10.23 21:17 TheHybrid185 Apex Legends - We suck
2021.10.23 21:17 Key_Sale2208 Differences between American and Aussie ICUs?
Hi - Australian MS3 interested in intensivist training. Whenever I discuss ICU practices with ICU trainees here in Sydney, at some point the trainee will casually mention that American ICUs are soooo different to ours. I wonder what they mean by this?
If you’re familiar with these two systems, could you please comment on the differences, and why they occur? Are there idiosyncrasies in systems, practices, or cultures?
My guesses have been that the trainees are obliquely referring to differences in training (Americans have a highly streamlined pathway, possibly producing bosses who need more input from other doctors? Vs Aussie doctors toil away for forever but are then more generalist as bosses and thus rely less on a model with sub-specialty training / fellowships?).
Thanks in advance for sharing any insights!
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2021.10.23 21:17 Europa1 A student who listed his Black classmate on Craigslist as a 'slave for sale' has been given a probationary sentence
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2021.10.23 21:17 r2d228PL Grinding spot
275 kutum succ Lahn player here. since I got 261 AP i've been always grinding on star's end, but never really got into those elvia servers. I would really love to know if it is worth to switch to this elvia grind spots or should I just stick to the Star's end?
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I saw a comment about bacteria slime in someone’s water cure and want to make sure storing it dry in a pill bottle in my desk won’t cause the same thing to happen. I don’t water cure because i use mct capsules and don’t have to worry about the taste.
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2021.10.23 21:17 B0ssc0 Opinion: At the age of 10, kids need help, not jail
2021.10.23 21:17 Aster_Phoenix_VII Quick sketch, tried to add wisps of fur but not too sure on them; mostly could use some help with figuring out furry heads, so if theres like any resources out there, or tips I'd appreciate them :))
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2021.10.23 21:17 jeffdapro Sucking my own dick
Sucking your own dick doesn't feel good.
So a couple of months ago I found out that I was able to suck my own dick. And when I say suck my own dick I don't mean simply licking the tip of penis. I mean full on deepthroating my entire cock. When I first found out about this I was so excited and I immediately began sucking my knob.
Though I realised it wasn't really pleasurable at all. It felt more like I was sucking somebody else's dick than somebody sucking MY dick. Don't get me wrong there was SOME pleasure but it was completely overshadowed by the feeling of having a penis in my mouth. I wasn't able to focus on the sensation of being sucked off since all the focus was on having an entire fucking dick in my mouth.
It was a surreal experience to feel all my cock veins and stuff in my mouth but it wasn't what I was looking for you know? And no, it wasn't because my head game was trash. I actually became pretty good at dick sucking because of my special ability.
So yeah, sucking your own dick is no where near comparable to somebody else sucking you off. It just isn't as pleasurable as people make it out to be.
I think I'll just stick to jacking off instead.
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